Author Archives: Bhavika Goud

The sad thing about friendships these days is that you never know who’s real one or fake one. We all assume that our friends are true’ and will never turn us in, but then one day it happens and you don’t know what to do.

At some point we are all gonna have fake friends and there is no way to prevent it. we have to prepare ourselves to get hurt by the people that we would never imagine to hurt us.

We have to let someone go when they are toxic and cause you stress. You never wanna let them go but sometimes it’s best if we do. Let that ship sink. In the end everything will be okay.

It’s a real blessing if you find some dear one’s with pure intensions, in this toxic generation. Keep them close to your heart. You won’t be blessed twice with the same thing.

IT’S NOT ABOUT WHO STAYS REAL TO YOUR FACE, IT’S ALL ABOUT WHO STAYS REAL BEHIND YOUR BACK. Let this sink in.

In a world that seeks connection, we oddly avoid eye contact, we time our text responses in order to protect ourselves from seeming too eager or too intrested.

And we hold our feelings back because we don’t want to be seem overly emotional or unreasonable. We silence our instincts, and at the end of the day instead of feeling good about ourselves we feel alone, we feel misunderstood.

Remember__ it’s okay to be emotional, to seek help, to confidently tell someone you enjoy being around that your are infatuated with them.

There is nothing with vulnerability, with being human, for that is what creates depth within our relationships and that is what ultimately unifies us.

This morning I woke up and reminded myself that my soul is beautiful, my mind is powerful, my heart is pure and I’ve got so many good things going for me….. That i literally do not need anyone who isn’t going to love me the way I deserve to be loved.

But in the night while traveling back home, there was this unexpected harsh speed break, for a minute i was blank and wondering whether I’m okay or not. I wasn’t myself for sometime.

That sudden stop made me realise that anything can happen in the next minute. Life is full of surprises and miracles. Make sure you spend each and every minute to the fullest.

Be grateful for every second of every day you get to spend with the people you love. Our time together is short and precious.

Believe everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance take it. if it changes your life let it. Nobody said life is easy, they just promised it would most likely be worth it.

I’m signing 📴for the day, have a good day ahead.🥀

You won’t believe what I see from this vantage point, the years streching out before you like a long & winding road. I don’t want to scare you, but there is forest just up ahead. One so dense and dark, the sunlight won’t reach you for a while. You will wander lost, in this long, perilous night, not knowing if it will ever come to an end.

But, believe me, the light will find you again & when it does, you will no longer be afraid of the dark. Stop to catch your breath. Soon, a jagged mountain of ice will rise before you.

Don’t despair, the first foothold is always the most difficult & every inch you claim of that cold, hard precipice will only make you stronger. Before you know it, the ground will level out beneath you & you will look back to see you had conquered what you once thought is impossible.

See that turn just up ahead? That’s the place where love will meet you, with arms so warm it will melt away the winter in an instant. And then it will be summer of a very long time.

Being emotionally attached to someone sucks. It gives you a feeling of not being in control and fearing the loss of them.

I love being independent and it’s hard to learn to share things and accept I’m apart of a pair. We do it because we can’t help it. It’s uncontrollably beautiful and devastating at the same time.

We have given someone else the power to hurt us and we trust they won’t. Sometimes we choose wrong and that’s okay because the time we choose right it’s amazing. Im not saying love is perfect. It’s about trust, care, fights, compromising, work, Making time, dates and most importantly consent and many things that keep your relation alive.

We are all in such a rush to fall in Love that we forget what it really entails. LOVE is not for the weak hearted, it’s only available when all walls are beginning to crumble & the light is barely visible at the end of the tunnel. That’s when love is possible & you’re ready to face it head on.

Your life is your own. I want you to read that sentence until it sinks all the way down inside your gut & meets every last impulse that tells you to put your intuition on pause, to place Yourself second, to bend & break into molds of what everyone else wants you to be.

Your life is your own. I want it to pass through your head so many times it slowly clears out the debris of your fear. I want you to meditate on it until you realise that your not too strange, you just have the courage to be your true self, you are not too different, you just have the courage to follow your own heart.

You are not unworthy, you are just honest about the very natural, Human experience of the feeling unworthiness.

Every person alive wishes to embody these very same forms of freedom. They are not judging you they are expressing the parts of themselves they’ve judged into silence.

Your life is your own, and it will always be. You must find the courage to claim it or it will pass by you untouched – a glimmering, a lost potential of all that could have been.

There will be a time that we’ll be afraid of welcoming people into our lives. We’ll be sacred of letting people in and get attached with them. The reason is our fear of suffering the pain of letting go. And the first and the most basic thing that we’ll think of doing to protect ourselves is to stay away from the people we’re afraid of getting attached –

Which is so hard because it is equivalent to avoiding the privilege of becoming happy. And there’s a thing that will worsen it : we will be caught in the middle of choosing Which pain to endure;

Which pain can we stand Better – the pain caused by unhappiness and loneliness, or the pain that we know, nobody will ever be strong enough to stand against it – the pain of letting go.

Always be the best person you can be. Be kind even when you’re tired. Be understanding even when you’re angry. Do more than you’re asked, and don’t ask for anything in return. Don’t silently expect anything either.

Listen when someone talks and really listen too, just stop thinking of how you’ll reply. Tell people that you love them & that you appreciate them.

Go out of your way to do things for people. Be the greatest person you can be possibly be & when you mess up, make up for it in the next moment or minute or day. One thing you should not do??

Never spend your time trying to prove to anybody that you’re great, your actions will speak for themselves & we only have limited time on this earth, don’t waste it. If someone doesn’t see your light, don’t worry.

Like moths, good people are attracted to flame and to light, and they will come.

I know you’ve lost someone and it hurts. You may have lost them suddenly, unexpectedly. Or perhaps you began losing pieces of them until one day, there was nothing left. You may have known them all your life or you may have barely known them at all. Either way, it is irrelevant – you can not control the depth of a wound another soul’ inflicts upon you.

Which is why I am not here to tell you tomorrow is another day. That people come and go or just wake up and be happy.

What I will tell you is this : it’s okay to be hurting as much as you are. What you are feeling is not only completely valid but necessary – because it’s helps you to grow and become so much more Human.

And though I can’t promise it will get better any time soon, i can tell you that it will – eventually. For now all you can do is take all the time you need.

But at the end of the day, don’t loose yourself. You , yourself is the most powerful weapon that no one else can be you. Let “bygones be bygones” take the lesson and become the best 💫version of yourself.

Timing is something that none of us seem to get quite right with relationships. We meet the person of our dreams the month before they leave to go study abroad. We form an incredible close friendship with an attractive person who is already taken. One relationship ends because our partner isn’t ready to get serious and another ends because they’re getting serious too soon.

“It would be perfect ” we moan to our friends, if only this were five years from now/eight years sooner/some indistinct time in the future where all our problems would take care of themselves.”

Timing seems to be the in-variable third-party in all of our relationships. And yet we never stop to consider why we let timing play such a drastic role in our lives.

Timing is a bitch, yes. But it’s only a bitch if we let it be. Here’s a simple truth’ that i think we all need to face up to : the people we meet at the wrong time are actually wrong people.

You never meet the right person at wrong time because the right people are timeless. The right people make you want to throw away the plans you originally had for one and follow them into the hazy, unknown future without a glance backwards.

When you’re with the right person time falls away. You don’t worry about fitting them into your complicated schedule, because they become a part of that schedule. They become the backbone of it. Your happiness becomes your priority & so long as they are contributing to it, you can work around the rest.