Timing is something that none of us seem to get quite right with relationships. We meet the person of our dreams the month before they leave to go study abroad. We form an incredible close friendship with an attractive person who is already taken. One relationship ends because our partner isn’t ready to get serious and another ends because they’re getting serious too soon.
“It would be perfect ” we moan to our friends, if only this were five years from now/eight years sooner/some indistinct time in the future where all our problems would take care of themselves.”
Timing seems to be the in-variable third-party in all of our relationships. And yet we never stop to consider why we let timing play such a drastic role in our lives.
Timing is a bitch, yes. But it’s only a bitch if we let it be. Here’s a simple truth’ that i think we all need to face up to : the people we meet at the wrong time are actually wrong people.
You never meet the right person at wrong time because the right people are timeless. The right people make you want to throw away the plans you originally had for one and follow them into the hazy, unknown future without a glance backwards.
When you’re with the right person time falls away. You don’t worry about fitting them into your complicated schedule, because they become a part of that schedule. They become the backbone of it. Your happiness becomes your priority & so long as they are contributing to it, you can work around the rest.
just a beginner 🌟 